National Grief Awareness Week: Understanding When It’s Time for Professional Support

Grief is a universal, yet profoundly personal, human experience. During National Grief Awareness Week, we acknowledge that there is no “right” way or timeline for mourning. However, for some, the distress of loss can become so persistent, severe, and disabling that it develops into a recognized clinical condition: Complicated Grief (or Prolonged Grief Disorder).

If you need a therapist for grief counseling, our clinicians specialize in evidence-based treatment, including CBT and trauma therapy for loss. You do not have to carry this burden alone.

Here are 5 key signs that the pain you are experiencing may be Complicated Grief and warrants professional support.

1. The Time Factor: Intense Symptoms Persist Past Six Months

While the intensity of grief naturally fluctuates, if the acute, disabling symptoms (such as intense yearning, emotional numbness, and preoccupation with the loss) are still dominant six months or more after the loss, it may signal Complicated Grief (Prolonged Grief Disorder). Normal grief tends to soften over time; complicated grief does not.

2. Emotional Numbness or Avoidance

Instead of intense sorrow, you might experience persistent emotional detachment, disbelief about the death, or feel emotionally numb. You may also be actively avoiding reminders of the person or circumstances of the death, which hinders your ability to integrate the loss and move forward.

3. Difficulty Returning to Daily Functioning

Grief is disruptive, but Complicated Grief prevents recovery in core areas of life. This includes:

• Inability to return to work or school.
• Severe decline in self-care (hygiene, eating, sleeping).
• Difficulty engaging in social activities or pursuing life goals.

4. Intense Loneliness and Yearning

A persistent, consuming longing or yearning for the deceased that dominates your thoughts and interferes with your ability to enjoy any other aspect of life. This intense focus makes it nearly impossible to re-engage with the world around you.

5. Feeling That a Part of Yourself Has Died

Many sufferers report feeling that their life lost its meaning or purpose after the loss, or that a significant part of their identity died along with the person. This sense of being “broken” or that you “can’t stop overthinking everything” is a critical indicator that your grief has become disabling.

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